You Know your real friends when in bad times!!

Somehow I never understood this statement when everything was fine with me. I only realized the  inner meaning when I was going through bad times.

There are different kinds of people in this world:


A) The Good Listeners:

Some are very close to you, they listen to each word that comes out of your mouth very carefully. You may think they are so concerned and they don’t pass judgments about you like others. But the day when they open their mouth you know how judgmental they are; how they prove they are very good at what they are doing, and how bad your life is. They listen very carefully to project their doings are very correct than what you are today.


B) Mr. Correct:

There are some others who try to prove what they think about your life is the correct way of living.


C) Self Centers:

There are others who are very friends with you, they use you when they want, and when you need some help from them,  they have 100 reasons not to be available for you. They are the kind of friends who use you when they want, and they behave that you are everything for them at that time. When you call for help you won’t hear from them again.


D) The Players:

And these kinds act as if you are their best friend and at the same time show you how they can separate you when they are with their other groups. They play according to their convenience.They want to show themselves as the best. You think they are friends with you and they would treat you the same at all the times, but there is another side to them you might have not known , and you will find that when they are with their close knit of friends , and if you try to fit in they will separate you.

E) The One Sided:


You are their best friend when they are in bad shape and they need a shoulder to cry. They tell you everything that is going on  in their life and how sad they are. But once that incident is over and they are all happy and life is good, they don’t even think of you. They don’t bother to even ask how you are doing or what you are going through.


F) The Needy:

These are the kind who wait for an opportunity, they will know your situation very well . They try to empathize with you, and you will believe that they are there for you if ever you need them. But you don’t know that they are plotting their own plan form behind. They are helping you because they need something form you. You will only know or realize that when the time comes, until then you will be ignorant.


G) The untouchables:

These are the kind who are even scared to ask you how you are doing. Why? If  they ask you ,they are scared where you will ask them for help. They don’t want anything form you and they don’t want you to ask them anything.


The lesson which i learned for this is, there is no better person than you, yourself to depend on than anyone. If you are sad about something just divert yourself form it and try to find your way to solve problem than asking for advice. If people know you are going through hard times, for  the most part, it will only make them happy. You are capable enough to take your own decisions.


Conclusion:
Hard times will only make you strong to deal with situations in life in a better way.

Har Ek Friend Kamina Hotha Hai