When years came by and went and i never realized how easy it was all these years and how i was blessed until the start of 2012. Every one's new year might have started with something. For my cousin 2011 is last bachelor year, he will be getting married in Feb of 2012. Some might have done lots of traveling . Some shopping and some studying and the list goes on and on...but for me it has started with lots of thinking and decisions to make. My Husband has been in India for few months for his parents and he wanted us to join him for few months as its hard for me with two kids to stay alone.But I'm in half mind due to various reasons. Not that i don't love my country , I didn't want to disturb the routine. So i had to decide to go or to not go? if i don't how will i manage with the kids alone?If i have to join him,whether to quit my job or not to quit? If i keep the job and decide to stay back alone with the kids, how will i manage work , kids school and the new baby all alone in this country?
When i was breaking my head over all these things, one good friend of mine said only one thing.. " No matter what it is , make peace with it" and another friend said " make a decision and be happy with it".
Then when i sat back and thought about it , it made things clear, no matter what the problems are, it is much easier when every one is at one place, struggle together , laugh together , cry together and be happy together . And make peace so that every one is happy.
When you are married for years and build your relationship, its not easy to let go. At the same time though you love each other very much , when you have built your empire on your won and struggled your way to build it , its hard to leave everything at once for your partner. On the contrary, though you have your empire, but no family to be happy , there is no meaning for your achievement.
So i have lots to decide and think through, i will keep yo posted in my next post..
When i was breaking my head over all these things, one good friend of mine said only one thing.. " No matter what it is , make peace with it" and another friend said " make a decision and be happy with it".
Then when i sat back and thought about it , it made things clear, no matter what the problems are, it is much easier when every one is at one place, struggle together , laugh together , cry together and be happy together . And make peace so that every one is happy.
When you are married for years and build your relationship, its not easy to let go. At the same time though you love each other very much , when you have built your empire on your won and struggled your way to build it , its hard to leave everything at once for your partner. On the contrary, though you have your empire, but no family to be happy , there is no meaning for your achievement.
So i have lots to decide and think through, i will keep yo posted in my next post..
